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May Is Mental Health Awareness Month -- What’s Grief Got To Do With It? (Grief and Brain Connection)
Every May is the designated Mental Health Awareness Month. The goal is to fight stigma, provide support, educate the public, and advocate for policies that support people with mental illness and their families. It also draws attention to… read more…
Mother’s Day Grief: Missing Your Mom, or Missing “Mothering”
How to cope with Mother’s Day while you are seeing signs and reminded of the loss of your mother. 12 Tips to help cope with this holiday…Read More
New Books To Help Guide You Through Your Grief
So many new books about grief have been released in the last few years that we will never be lacking for various perspectives, suggestions, personal tales and coping tools to help grievers try to endure the difficult experience that is grief.
Read more to find my suggestions…
Grief and Intimacy: A Hot Topic for Young & Old
In my practice, many of my bereaved clients have experienced the death of a spouse or partner, and along with all the other life changes, there exists the loss of the intimacy which they shared with that person. Grievers often feel that they have to keep this topic to themselves, and they don’t have a place to express this. In my practice, I encourage grievers to open up about this, because…
Can Grievers Take a “Grief-cation”?
Vacations are for everyone! Grievers, included.
In my grief counseling practice, my clients often express the concern that if they go on vacation after a loved one dies, people might think that they are not grieving their loved one since they’re choosing to escape to somewhere enjoyable.
Grief Comes in Waves — Like an Ocean of Emotion
In my grief counseling practice, I often talk to my clients about how GRIEF COMES IN WAVES. And it’s a fact.
Grief comes in waves, often when you’re least expecting it. And it doesn't matter how.. Read More…
When You Want to See a Sign From Your Deceased Loved One
After-death communication (ADC) experiences are certainly not a new trend. They have been around for a long time and in other parts of the world, they are even discussed openly with relatives and friends, without fear of being considered “crazy” or having a wild imagination.
Anxiety Might Be Another Stage of Grief For Some Grievers
For some people, after experiencing the death of a loved one, anxiety is a full-time experience, with little relief in sight… it is even suggested that it could be considered an additional stage of grief… Red More.
March Comes in Like a Lion and Goes Out Like a Lamb: Does Grief Move that way too?
There is an old proverb that says that the month of March comes in like a lion and goes out like a lamb, with regard to the weather. Can this be true of grief too? Yes, it can. Here’s how.
Valentine’s Day After The Death of a Loved One
Here we are, coming up on another Valentine’s Day. Another Febuary 14 appearing on our calendars and at a Hallmark store near us. And there are just way too many little sugar candy hearts with imprinted sayings dominating the grocery store aisles.
Resources to Help Grievers
My website www.jillgriefcounselor.com has a Book List. I encourage you to click on it and take a look at the books within the different categories of grief. And now I am adding more…
When a Close Friend Dies
In life, we often fear the worst – the death of a parent, a sibling, a spouse or a child. We except that if such a death happens, it will be the most difficult, shattering time in our life. We tend to try not to imagine what it would be like for us when a close friend dies. It’s not an experience we can understand until it happens.
The Physical Effects of Grief: Grief Can Make You Sick
Grief can create physical illness. And it’s real. You’re not just imagining things if you don’t feel well. Do you have these symptoms…Read More…
Coping With Grief in the Wintertime
The start of the new year, and we’re also settling into wintertime. Some already feel the winter “blahs and blues.”
Here’s what I start to see right about now in my grief counseling practice….Read More.
Grieving During “Happy New Year” Days
Time can stand still when you’re grieving. Days turn into nights and weeks, and you find you’re still grieving…Then, here comes the BIG NEW YEAR’S HOLIDAY… Read More.
December Holiday Grief: Remember to Support Grieving Children
When it comes to bereavement, a lot of attention is directed towards adults. Remember one thing, though… CHILDREN ARE THE FORGOTTEN GRIEVERS.
Oh No! It’s December — Advice on Coping with this Holiday Month
Are you having a hard time coping during the holidays? Even in the midst of what is considered the most festive time of year, many out there in the real world are NOT celebrating and are NOT joy-filled. In fact, many are really sad during this season.
Young and Widowed. A Challenging Combination.
If you are a younger person who has lost a spouse or partner, the words “unfair” and “unexpected” are generally at the forefront of your mind when it comes to your grief.
Both are true; younger widows and widowers certainly face unique challenges….Read more.
Grief, Gratefulness, Gatherings – The Many Challenges of Thanksgiving
Thanksgiving is this month’s major event, or at least for the majority Thanksgiving is just around the corner. And for those grieving, it can be a challenging time. No matter what your situation is this year…Read More…
The Stigma of Suicide: Why It’s One of The Hardest Deaths to Grieve
Suicide is a death like none other. Survivors of suicide can often experience different emotions that are unique to this kind of loss. It brings about so many unbearable feelings and emotions in people.